找病 (reactive, subconscious mind, negative driven)  以為就是找健康 (proactive, conscious mind, positive driven)

 

醫生病人共同興趣 (Like attracts like, like minds click, rapport 親和力   - law of attraction) ,找身體病。

 

 

 

Using much more Negative words than positive words

 Positive thinking: Reduce stress by eliminating negative self-talk

http://www.mayoclinic.com/health/positive-thinking/SR00009

The health benefits of positive thinking

Researchers continue to explore the effects of positive thinking and optimism on health. Health benefits that positive thinking may provide include:

  • Increased life span
  • Lower rates of depression
  • Lower levels of distress
  • Greater resistance to the common cold
  • Better psychological and physical well-being
  • Reduced risk of death from cardiovascular disease
  • Better coping skills during hardships and times of stress
  • .........

It's unclear why people who engage in positive thinking experience these health benefits. One theory is that having a positive outlook enables you to cope better with stressful situations, which reduces the harmful health effects of stress on your body. It's also thought that positive and optimistic people tend to live healthier lifestyles — they get more physical activity, follow a healthier diet, and don't smoke or drink alcohol in excess.

 

can't tolerate stupidity

遇人不淑,誤交損友

 論語--唯仁者能好人,能惡人!